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Is it typical for people with dementia to sleep a lot during the day?

People with dementia, especially those in the later stages, can often spend a lot of time sleeping. This can sometimes be worrying for carers, friends and family. Find out why a person with dementia might sleep more than an average person of their age.

It is quite common for a person with dementia, especially in the later stages, to spend a lot of their time sleeping – both during the day and night. This can sometimes be distressing for the person’s family and friends, as they may worry that something is wrong. 

Sleeping more and more is a common feature of later-stage dementia. As the disease progresses, the damage to a person’s brain becomes more extensive and they gradually become weaker and frailer over time.

As a result, a person with dementia may find it quite exhausting to do relatively simple tasks like communicating, eating or trying to understand what is going on around them. This can make the person sleep more during the day as their symptoms become more severe. 

Some medications may contribute to sleepiness. These include some antipsychotics, antidepressants, antihistamines and of course sleeping pills.

Sleeping disorders unrelated to dementia, such as having breathing that occasionally stops during sleep (known as ‘apnoea’), can also contribute to sleeping for longer. 

What should I do if a person with dementia is sleeping a lot? 

If the person is in the later stages of dementia and they have gradually started sleeping more and more, it is likely to be due to the dementia progressing.  

However, if the excessive sleeping has started more suddenly, or the person doesn’t seem well in other ways, it may have another cause.  

If this is the case you should speak to the GP, to rule out any infections or conditions that could be affecting the person's sleep.

It may also be worth asking for a medication review with the GP or speaking to a pharmacist as medication can cause a range of side effects. 

If the person is sleeping a lot but it isn’t having a negative impact on them it is often best to just go with it and make sure they are comfortable. 

Why does dementia affect sleep? 

Problems with sleep are very common for people with dementia. They can include: 

  • sleeping during the day and being awake and restless during the night 
  • becoming disorientated in the dark if they wake up to use the toilet 
  • waking up more often and staying awake longer during the night 
  • getting up in the early hours and thinking it’s day time or time to go to work (disorientation in time) 
  • not being able to tell the difference between night and day. 

Nobody completely understands why dementia affects sleeping patterns. For some people, it may be that their internal ‘biological clock’, which judges what time it is, becomes damaged so the person starts to feel sleepy at the wrong time of day.

There are also other parts of the brain which control whether or not we stay awake, and these may also not work properly if they become damaged.  

Sometimes a person with dementia might completely reverse their normal sleep pattern, staying up all night and then sleeping all day. 

Sleep and dementia

It's common for people with dementia, especially in the later stages, to spend a lot of their time sleeping

Does quality of sleep matter for people with dementia? 

The quality of a person's sleep gradually deteriorates as they get older. They tend to get less deep or ‘slow-wave’ sleep, which helps to keep the brain healthy and refreshed. 

Even though a person with dementia may end up sleeping more than a typical person of their age – even as much as 14–15 hours a day – it is unlikely to all be good quality sleep. 

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Sleeping a lot can also be influenced by people’s sleeping patterns before they had dementia, as some people need more sleep than others. 

Sleep for people who have dementia with Lewy bodies and Parkinson’s disease 

The type of dementia you have can affect your sleep.

People who have dementia caused by Lewy body disease, such as Parkinsons’ disease (PD) or dementia with Lewy bodies (DLB) are often sleepy by day but have very restless and disturbed nights. They can suffer from confusion, nightmares and hallucinations. Insomnia, sleep apnoea (breathing difficulties) and restless legs are common symptoms. 

A person affected with these types of dementia may often unknowingly ‘act’ out their dreams by shouting and moving around in bed.

They can even cause injury to themselves and/or their sleeping partner. This is called rapid eye movement (REM) sleep behaviour disorder or RBD, and tends to happen from the earliest stages of the disease onwards.

This can be exhausting and often leaves the person feeling like they haven’t slept at all, so they are very tired and sleepy during the day.

It can be hard to stay awake during the day after a poor night’s sleep but, if possible, it’s best to try to limit sleep during the day to small bursts or ‘catnaps’. Otherwise the person’s body clock can become very confused and this makes sleeping well during the night even harder.

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hi I lost my mam 2 years ago may 4th she had hadheart failure but we took her to hospital with a fall hurt her knee she never came out I am still devastated 💔 my dad came up on Christmas time that year he normally sleep down her bungalow. but he stayed with me as she had gone in may my dad has what I was told onset dementia after finding out about my mam he got worse I took him for scan through his doctors. and about 1week later I had phone call off doctors to say my dad stage 3 vascular dementia he sings all night talks to my mam I think. he knows me someday but then another day he don't know me can someone phone me for a chat as I need to get answers from someone to what I'm about to find out I'm disabled and have arthritis right through me it's really hard for me thanks

Good afternoon, Jackie

We're really sorry to hear about the loss of your mam and the situation with your dad, it sounds like you are going through a very difficult time. Please know that you are not alone, and we are here for you.

We strongly recommend calling our Dementia Connect support line on 0333 150 3456 to speak with one of our trained dementia advisers. They can listen to you and provide advice and support specific to your situation. More information about the support line, including opening hours, is available here: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/dementia-connect-support-line

Alzheimer's Society blog team

My mother has had Alzheimer’s for 13yrs it’s been progressing slowly but now she’s sleeping all the time, only wake when I tell her it’s meal times. Her appetite is good her mobility is limited , I have noticed of late she has cold hand & feet which she never had before she 90 yrs old is this normal x
My mom is 84yrs old. She has been diagnosed with dementia. Can dementia affect her from standing up, walking, and holding herself up? She also has incontenince. Her memory is not that bad. She sometimes says random things and doesn’t know where she going with subject. She has been sleeping more lately for 2 weeks.
My mom is the same way she can’t walk anymore and beginning to sleep several hours during the day and hums a lot also. Praying for you. Judy
My mum is exactly as you say and she is 80. Is she still at home?
My mom was diagnosed with blood clot in lung and is being treated with blood thinners. But in the last two weeks after she is becoming childlike agreeable can’t make a decision sleeps all day night wets pants I don’t know what to do

Hi Marie,

We're sorry to hear this, it sounds like such a difficult situation to be in.

Unfortunately, we can't provide specific advice without knowing more information. We'd recommend talking to a GP about your concerns, but please also know you can call our support line on 0333 150 3456.

One of our trained dementia advisers can listen to you and provide specific, relevant advice and support. You can find more details about the support line (including opening hours and other methods of contact) here: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/get-support/dementia-support-line

We hope this helps for now, Marie. Please do call our support line.

Alzheimer's Society website team

My hubby has early stage dementia he can’t talk but functions quite well. Memory is not good , but drives well and has good cognitive ability. Seems to be sleeping a lot should I wake him up to eat lunch after having breakfast earliet

Hi Elaine, we're sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis.

We'd suggest calling our support line on 0333 150 3456 to speak with one of our trained dementia advisers. They can provide tailored information, advice and support to help with your situation. You can find more details about the support line (including opening hours and other methods of contact) here: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/dementia-connect-support-line  

You may also benefit from joining our online community, Talking Point, where carers and other people affected by dementia can share their experiences and receive peer support. This can be a great place to find help and get advice from other people who have been in similar situations: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/get-support/dementia-talking-point-our-online-community

We hope this helps for now, Elaine. Please get in touch with our dementia advisors if you need advice or support.

Alzheimer's Society blog team

Really he's driving???. I think from experience of many family members who have had dementia this may not be a good idea. Please check with his GP.
I thought the same too? Driving? If one has no memory, how can he knows where to go and it is dangerous for other cars, pedestrians. When my husband was told he has Alzheimer’s, he gave up driving right away so, he would not cause harm to others, having liabilities. Insurance may not cover if one knowingly drives with this disease. Hope all is well so far.
My mum is 78 and was diagnosed with parkinsons 3 years ago and dementia related to parkinsons just this year. Her consultant put her on quetiapine an antipyscotic for agitation and one min she was out shopping independently to the following week increased confusion, agitation and sleeping all day. Anyone else experienced this. We can't get our heads round how quickly she went down hill.
My mum was also diagnosed with Parkinsons 3 years ago is 72 was independent walking round tesco shopping she started with mild hallucinations one week and the next week she got up out of bed and couldn't stand and her mind had completely gone as well as her legs she was in hospital for 4 weeks they just said it's a rapid deterioration of parkinsons she is now full 24 hour nursing care can't move or feed herself
Hi. I have only just seen your post and have noted it was over a month ago, so things might have improved. I just want to say I have no experience of drugs related to Parkinsons but a similar thing happened to my mum with a different medication, and it’s important to go back to the consultant , explain what’s happened, and hopefully get the medication stopped or changed. it’s likely it’s caused your Mum’s deterioration, they can try other drugs. These anti psychotics are very strong x
my mom declined on Quatiapine with the same symptoms. We took here off and introduced Zoloft. (has low dose as too much made her sleep and no appetite). Much better now. She was given Ativan for years which she had to be taken off of because it made her agitation worse.. It took months to get her off it an withdrawal was terrible. Lots of over the counter medications like Reactin can interact with medications as well. Best of luck.
I would talk to the doctor about the medication they put her on. My mother was put on a medication for seizures. It changed her life for the worse until we figured out the medication was causing the issues. She was on dilantin, after the doctors thought she was having seizures. We noticed decreased mobility, falling, and confusion. Also hallucinations. Once she ended up in the hospital and the doctors did a thorough work up they agreed the medication was the problem.
My father still lives independently with lots of assistance. He hasn't wandered out of the house yet. We have lots of technology to help, cctv camera, echo show. WiFi Co.trolled lights and extra heating. It all helps. He mainly sleeps 6am to 2pm. Currently we've not imposed a sleep schedule on him and he often complains of being unwell when he wakes up, we feel as he lives alone with visits then let him do as he wants. Is this the right thing to do?
My lovely husband has Parkisons and almost 3 years ago started with dementia which has gradually got worse, he is very unsteady on his feet for the last 3 days he has forgotten how to use the toilet is that normal ? he has always closed the bathroom door but now calls me in to help or to ask me if he has done it right. He keeps apologising and thanks me for helping, is it normal to forget what to do so suddenly?
Yes, I am afraid it is. My husband was diagnosed with Parkinson’s dementia 18 months ago., 18 months after he was diagnosed with Parkinson’s. He is only 59 sadly and already he cannot use the loo alone. They seem to forget what things look like and the pathway between brain and knowing they need a loo is lost. I find it helpful to help him onto the loo and then leave him in privacy for 5 minutes and come back in and help. I think it gives them a sense of dignity. I also take him to the loo every few hours. That again seems to help. Obviously worth noting if the confusion came on very suddenly in case it is a uti. It’s a very trying disease and so hard to come to terms with.
Thank you for your comment, it is breaking my heart seeing a lovely strong man disappearing before my eyes. It is such a cruel disease.
Hello! Quite normal however with the increased confusions always get a check for a UTI. Merry Christmas
My husband sleeps most of the day and has very disrupted sleep at night. The GP has adjusted every medication he takes at different times to see if this might help with the lethargy. It doesn't. I think this is due to his Alzheimer's but the GP seems reluctant to say so. He was diagnosed 3 years ago and feels very isolated. I need to work & it is increasingly difficult as there is little support.

Hi Debbie,

We're sorry to hear this - it sounds like a difficult situation for you both. Please know that we are here for you.

We'd recommend calling our support line on 0333 150 3456 to speak with one of our trained dementia advisers. They will listen to you and provide specific information, advice and support to help with your situation. You can find more details about the support line (including opening hours and other methods of contact) here: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/dementia-connect-support-line

We hope this helps for now, Debbie. Please do call our support line.

Alzheimer's Society blog team

I always feel so very tired all the time inspite of sleeping well I have Alzheimer’s is this the cause please
My sister is in the last stage of dementia not eating or drinking very much, sleeping lots and refusing medication, only slightly aggressive more out of confusion as she can hardly see cataracts and she wears two hearing aids which she's refusing to have in. At the moment she's in hospital infections she's in a residential care home in a large room only its near the top, the staff have asked if l would like her moved downstairs as there are more passing staff it's a smaller room , and she will beaimly bed nursed if my sister is sleeping will she benefit from more stimulation or best left in larger room .

Hi Caroline, we are sorry to hear about the difficult situation with your sister. If you need any information, advice or support, please do call our Dementia Connect support line on 0333 150 3456. You can talk to a dementia adviser on this number, who will listen to your situation with your sister and give you advice. More details of the support line (including opening hours) are available here: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/get-support/national-dementia-helpline

We hope this is helpful, Caroline,

Alzheimer's Society blog team

My Mum just started showing real issues with short term memory 8 weeks ago, we are waiting for head scan and to be seen at a memory clinic. She has deteriorated so much she doesn’t know I come to her everyday to care for her. She lives alone and has severe mobility issues and so without adaptations to my home I can not bring her to stay with me. I feel very scared for her and it is already taking a toll on my health as I also care for my hubby and disabled 30 year old son, and youngest is preparing for his exams right now. There are no others to care for her and she is getting just over an hour support from social care which we pay for. I also work 30 hrs per week and can not sleep. I don’t know how to manage this for the best.

Hi Angeline, we're sorry to hear about your Mum. If you need to talk to someone, please call our support line on 0333 150 3456 to speak with one of our trained dementia advisers. They will be able to listen to your situation and provide specific advice and support.

More information about the support line (including opening hours) can be found here: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/dementia-connect-support-line 

You might also benefit from joining our online community, Talking Point. Here, carers and other people affected by dementia share their experiences and offer advice and support to others going through similar situations. You can browse the conversations within the community or sign up for free: https://forum.alzheimers.org.uk

We hope this helps, Angeline. Please do call the support line on 0333 150 3456 if you need us.

I was diagnosed with dementia about 3 yrs ago. I'm 58 yrs old. I see a Neurologist, but have no help. My boy friend and family laugh it off or get mad with me. I can not hold conversations with people. I forget what I'm saying, doing, or who I'm talking to. If I call a doctor for an appointment, I ask my boy friend later, did I call docto...? He starts laughing about how silly I am. If people know anyway to get help with working with us on educating all of us on this disease please contact on here or send info here. Every now and then I have good moments like right now. But a lot more bad. Thank you guys! Take care of your loved ones. Believe them when they ask "stupid questions" it gets scary to us you know...

Hi Sheila,

We're sorry to hear this. Please know that we are here for you if you need support.

You can always call our support line on 0333 150 3456 to speak with one of our trained dementia advisers. They will listen to you and provide specific information, advice and support that's relevant to your situation. You can find more details about the support line (including opening hours and other methods of contact) here: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/dementia-connect-support-line

You might also benefit from joining our online community, Talking Point, where people affected by dementia can share their experiences. You can browse topics within the community or sign up for free: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/get-support/dementia-talking-point-our-online-community 

We hope this helps for now, Sheila.

Alzheimer's Society blog team

Such a cruel cruel condition which is killing my Mum and partially destroying my life and sanity. There appears to be minimal support available outside meeting other "victims" well I don't see any benefit in that. No Dementia nurses in the North West, Social services are useless as is my and my Mums Dr.

David, we're very sorry to hear about your mum, it sounds like a very difficult time. Please know that you aren't alone in this, and we are here for you.

We'd strongly recommend calling our support line on 0333 150 3456 to speak with one of our trained dementia advisers. They will listen to you and provide specific information, advice and support that's relevant to your mum's situation. You can find more details about the support line (including opening hours and other methods of contact) here: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/dementia-connect-support-line

We hope this helps for now, David. Please do call our support line.

Alzheimer's Society blog team

David agree 100 percent. My husband is going through this I do the best I can but sometimes wonder how far am I going to make it. Have 6 grown adult children with their own family and don't want to impose. They would have to educate themselves on the disease so they can handle some of it cause it can get pretty ugly between you and the other. God bless you and if you don't pray.... LEARN it helps.
Hi Margaret. As a daughter of a father with dementia, for the first time in my life, Mom has asked for help. She is caring for Dad in their home. Dad always managed everything, finances, taxes, health care, everything. She tries to shoulder everything alone and I am so appreciative and willing to help with anything I can do for them. Let your children help you. You don’t have to do this alone. You will never be a burden to your children, they love you and want to help. Your children don’t want to lose both of you to this disease, take care of the care taker.
Hi David, I too am caring for my mum who has vascular dementia and Alzheimer’s. It does feel very isolating and stressful. I am yet to find support and don’t feel there is enough care out there. Let’s hope more support will be available in the future.
My husband is 14 years into Parkinson's diagnosis 10 months ago started experiencing vivid hallucinations which took the form of phycosis After months of medical and physical examinations he has now had confirmed diagnosis of part Parkinson's and part vascular dementia He has been prescribed a patch which at the moment after one week as proven to be beneficial and little bits of his character are more present This disease is very cruel and leads to couples leading quite insular lives which in turn then become very lonely Dementia has taken our retirement away But we must always remember to smile
My husband was diagnosed with Alzheimer's six years ago. He is in a nursing home. He knows everyone and something we did together as a family. But he sleeps a lot. Sometimes the aids and nurse try to help him and says no to them. My daughter went to see him today and he talk to her a few minutes and said he was sleepy. Is that normal?

Hi Mary, 

We are sorry to hear abut your husband.

If you need someone to talk to please call our Dementia Connect support line on 0333 150 3456. One of our dementia advisers can learn more about your situation and give tailored information, advice and support. You can find more details (including opening hours) here: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/dementia-connect-support-line.

My wife has dementia and sleeps a lot. That is normal. When I visit her she will be sitting in a chair and sleeping, but in my visit she is active and rhythmic with the music on my cell phone with Alexa, which makes me happy. I love her so much.
My husband is 65 & was diagnosed 8 years ago with dementia he sleeps well at night . But throughout the day follows me constantly so close behind me I turn & bump into him . I have to try move him to get in a cupboard or draw which makes working in kitchen so difficult. He never sleeps through the day & if I sit to watch tv he wanders back & forward in front of it upstairs & down again through the whole day . There is no conversation he understands nothing at all & can get aggressive very easily. Just starting to get occasional toilet accidents. I take him out long walks to try trier him so he’ll sit down awhile but no chance . I’m at my wits end

Hello Jenny,

It sounds like you would benefit from joining our online community. Talking Point is the ideal place for carers and other people affected by dementia to share their personal experiences and offer advice and support to others going through similar situations. You can browse the conversations within the community or sign up to participate for free: https://forum.alzheimers.org.uk

If you are based in the UK, we'd also suggest speaking with one of our dementia advisers. They will listen to the situation and provide you with advice and support. Please call our Dementia Connect support line on 0333 150 3456. (More information on opening times, and other methods of contact, can be found here: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/dementia-connect-support-line)

If you're based in the US, please contact the Alzheimer's Association helpline: https://alz.org/help-support/resources/helpline

Or if you're based in Canada, please contact the Alzheimer's Society of Canada helpline: https://alzheimer.ca/en/Home/ContactUs

In the meantime, we have information on our website about walking about that may be of interest: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/about-dementia/symptoms-and-diagnosis/why-person-with-dementia-might-be-walking-about This is available to download as a PDF factsheet: https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/sites/default/files/2019-05/501lp-walking-about-190521.pdf

We also have some details on dementia and 'trailing, following and checking'. (A person with dementia may follow someone around, check that they are nearby, or keep calling out or asking for them) https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/about-dementia/symptoms-and-diagnosis/symptoms/trailing-checking

We hope this is helpful for now.

Alzheimer's Society website team

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