Hello my name is Tammy I’ve just started looking after my mother in-law with dementia she had a fall at home and had an operation on her hip and I started to look after her for 3days it’s very hard she where’s nappy pants to control herself but still makes a mess I’m not professional I had to clean her mess every time we have had nurses come and check on her day to day but still nothing has changed her 4 boys don’t want her to go into a nursing home but I can’t cope it’s just not for me she’s in hospital for now doing more test but the boys are still waiting me to take her on what can I do it’s so hard I’ve tried
Dementia Support Line
Tammy Abdelahad
saysHello my name is Tammy I’ve just started looking after my mother in-law with dementia she had a fall at home and had an operation on her hip and I started to look after her for 3days it’s very hard she where’s nappy pants to control herself but still makes a mess I’m not professional I had to clean her mess every time we have had nurses come and check on her day to day but still nothing has changed her 4 boys don’t want her to go into a nursing home but I can’t cope it’s just not for me she’s in hospital for now doing more test but the boys are still waiting me to take her on what can I do it’s so hard I’ve tried