'My sister and I live abroad, so the travel restrictions during the pandemic have made things very difficult. It was not possible for my sister to travel at all and eventually I had to get special permission, as Dad got sick with Shingles and Mum became ill with a nasty Infection.

'Coronavirus has created a culture of fear for everyone, especially those who are most vulnerable. The consequences of Dad or Mum contracting the coronavirus are serious.'

'For Dad it has not been a simple or easy decision to allow people into their home to support him and Mum, and it has been difficult to get medical support.

'For Mum and Dad, the pandemic has also had a massive impact on a personal and social level. Family and friends, who would normally be their natural support circle, haven’t been able to visit. They would have given Dad respite time, a chance to go out and recharge while they provided company for Mum. 

'Mum is deteriorating fast, which is a frightening and isolating experience for her. She is very confused and doesn't understand COVID-19 or how lockdown has affected their lives.'

Frankie says that Alzheimer's Society has been a lifeline for her Dad and this is all thanks to our generous players and supporters.

'Dad has Allie (Dementia Support Worker) on speed dial. Allies listens, gives advice, and has helped us navigate the system.'

After a further period of hospitalisation and increasing needs, David and family took the difficult decision of moving Beryl into full-time residential care. 'For a married couple of almost 60 years, these decisions are both monumental and heart-breaking', says Frankie.

'Although Alzheimer's Society cannot take away the harsh reality that our family is facing, the availability of their kind, thoughtful, knowledgeable and ongoing support has made an extremely challenging time that little bit more manageable.'